I just want to share something I watched.."Girl's Guide to Starting Over". I saw this while browsing videos on YOUTUBE. And it somewhat inspired me to write something on my blog(Note:Some points we're lifted from the video).
Everyone has the power to refresh their life. A new beginning as we all know. Yeah,it kinda hard at first but if you keep on trying and continue on finding ways how,you'll surely get over it.
Here are some pointers on how to start a "new" life :)
1. Let go.
two words.5 letters.LET GO. Such big word for someone who had been hurt but let's face it..it's the first thing we need to do. The first question is how? OH well, it depends on how you want it to be,how you want to let go. You can try donating the stuff your special someone gave you before because if you continue to see memories it will only give you an "ouch" feeling in the end and delete pictures you have whether online or offline(seeing those won't help you)..IT'S JUST A ONE CLICK AWAY TO MAKE THINGS EASIER FOR YOU (as what the video I watched said). It a way of deciding how and what is the best way for you to have fresh start. Always remember that it's not the end of your life. When something ended always remember that there will always be a new beginning. THINK POSITIVE ABOUT IT.
2. Forgive
With all honesty this is really hard to do especially to someone to hurt you. Someone you trusted. But forgiving will be the best solution. In my honest opinion,you don't have to forgive someone in a hurry,let time take you there. Don't forgive just in words,it should be in the heart. Forgive yourself, I guess that's the best way. Free yourself from all the anger and all other negative feelings you're feeling. It will only bring you down always. It's not that easy,I know but you should. And you should do it in the least time possible. Nothing beats a free mind and heart. Never trap yourself in the shadow of the past. You'll never know what might happen in the future.
3. Change your outlook
Outlook. We might have different meaning to this word. It might be outlook in life or environment. Try things you haven't tried. Go out and have fun. Change your room setting to something more delightful,don't hide in the shadow. Join other company as well. They can give some pretty weird advises but they can surely make you smile and forget everything for a while :) You can also change your wardrobe. Choose a more happy color for your clothes that a good way to start. Start fixing yourself. One way to feel happy is to look happy,isn't it? Try to put some make up,get a relaxing massage or facial and the most common is to have a haircut :)
4. Smile
Nothing beats a girl with a smile. Smile can really do wonders. I can lift up your spirit. It can lighten your mood and things will be easier. Frowning should never be on the list if you want a fresh start. And always remember that it's the best accessory that you can have..the best make up you can wear ;) IT WILL NEVER FADE :)
5. Never stop dreaming
Never let this event in your life ruin your future plans. Let this be your guide, your motivation to be better. At first you might not see it as a motivation but months and years will past and you'll just laugh at your mistakes. Continue in reaching your dreams :)
You don't need a new year or a new lover to start over ;) Love yourself first,that's the best thing you can do. Know yourself and when you're READY..EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY :)
2. Forgive
With all honesty this is really hard to do especially to someone to hurt you. Someone you trusted. But forgiving will be the best solution. In my honest opinion,you don't have to forgive someone in a hurry,let time take you there. Don't forgive just in words,it should be in the heart. Forgive yourself, I guess that's the best way. Free yourself from all the anger and all other negative feelings you're feeling. It will only bring you down always. It's not that easy,I know but you should. And you should do it in the least time possible. Nothing beats a free mind and heart. Never trap yourself in the shadow of the past. You'll never know what might happen in the future.
3. Change your outlook
Outlook. We might have different meaning to this word. It might be outlook in life or environment. Try things you haven't tried. Go out and have fun. Change your room setting to something more delightful,don't hide in the shadow. Join other company as well. They can give some pretty weird advises but they can surely make you smile and forget everything for a while :) You can also change your wardrobe. Choose a more happy color for your clothes that a good way to start. Start fixing yourself. One way to feel happy is to look happy,isn't it? Try to put some make up,get a relaxing massage or facial and the most common is to have a haircut :)
4. Smile
Nothing beats a girl with a smile. Smile can really do wonders. I can lift up your spirit. It can lighten your mood and things will be easier. Frowning should never be on the list if you want a fresh start. And always remember that it's the best accessory that you can have..the best make up you can wear ;) IT WILL NEVER FADE :)
5. Never stop dreaming
Never let this event in your life ruin your future plans. Let this be your guide, your motivation to be better. At first you might not see it as a motivation but months and years will past and you'll just laugh at your mistakes. Continue in reaching your dreams :)
You don't need a new year or a new lover to start over ;) Love yourself first,that's the best thing you can do. Know yourself and when you're READY..EVERYTHING WILL BE OKAY :)
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